Hi! First of all, I wanted you to know that
this entry is going to contain some swearing words (censored, of course) since,
as you know, I love to rage a lot. I thought about a nice method to censor
them: change a vowel and put the whole word in bold (so slot and slot don’t get confusing).
So today I wanted to talk about something which
is very common to talk about: what society does us all think about fatness.
To start with a subjective point of view, I
could say that I’m not the kind of girl that likes muscular guys or even fit
guys (embracing someone hard is like embracing a pole, don’t you think so?). Actually,
is pretty weird that I fall in love with a guy since I like things like this
(call it what you want, it’s neither a paraphilia nor a fetish since I can like humans), which is not very
common. Before you ask, I had a human boyfriend and he was actually unhealthily
fat. I told him that would be pretty healthy for him to get a little fitter,
but I promised him that if he got fit enough to be hard to the touch I would
leave him (of course our relationship wasn’t based on physical appearance, what
kind of butch did you think I was?) and,
guess what, he agreed. Sadly, he hadn’t got Internet anymore since some weeks
ago and distance relationships depend on that kind of things… Aaaanyway, I’m
not here to talk about my first love! The thesis that I want to show from my
opinion is basically: “embracing someone
hard to the touch is like embracing a pole”. What I mean that being healthily
chubby is possible and it could be sexy, of course. And it’s not OK to criticize someone for being fat
or chubby.
But, what does society show us? You can’t
count all the times I’ve listened words like “you shutty fat” or “you fat slot” just walking through the schoolyard. Basically, people
conceive that fat people is not “statically
OK” or simply “not healthy”
which, as I have already shown, it’s totally false. People just swallow what popular things such as MTV show them without thinking what the people they are insulting could
think or if what they are saying is true for everyone. I think they should say “not according to my physical likes” or “mostly unhealthy” instead of the
non-thought shut they usually poke
in the shape of words.
I have nothing against people that like
super-skinny girls such as Nicki Minaj or Apollo guys such as David Beckham. But
people have to know that everyone can be loved by everyone! I mean, a chubby
guy can be loved by a “Nicki Minaj” and a chubby gal can be loved by a “David
Beckham”, of course!
Share your opinions by comment (because I want to
know)!
